Perfection Strictly Enforced

Y'know...for a good while, I've heard girls say, "I want 'this and that' in a guy, and looks don't matter." Don't worry, ladies... I know guys say it, too, so I'm not judging ONLY based on girls. But I've gotten the bad end of it recently, so bare with me.

I don't know what age it was, but now you're required to have some sort of qualification for a girl to even give you a chance. The last girl I ended up with was because I felt an attraction to her, and we hit it off from there. I didn't know much about her, but after breaking the first barrier, it was all good from then on. Talking, a lil more talking, and yeah...more talking. But it was by simply taking a chance how we hit it off. No one takes chances anymore. They'd rather wait for someone who LOOKS like Mr. Right. No one says it up front, but looks are most important. If they weren't, an average joe would always land the girl of his dreams, and Mr. Right would always sweep Raggedy Ann off her feet.

I guess I'm to the point where I'd have better luck paying for a 2-dollar blowjob, than I would finding a nice girlfriend. I wasted a good amount of time on a girl who gave me every sign of wanting, at least, a friendship. A classmate, but a potential "friend." I call the girl a couple times about maybe going to dinner. I don't even get a callback, nor do I even get a "no, thanks." Now, I'm 23-years-old, not 12. I can take no for an answer. I've gotten used to it over the years. But she told me "Oh, I'm sorry. I forgot to call you." Really? I mean, really? Three times in a row? All I did was ask for dinner. It's not like I asked for laser tag and 69. I mean, it's not like I'd FORCE her to play laser tag. Anyways... Ha.

It's shit like that that'll get a girl labeled a tease. Then, the girl has the audacity to ask me, "why haven't you called me in awhile?" The stare on my face was probably something similar to when you have a look on your face like "what the hell stinks?" I could only give a chuckle, and say, "oh, my bad. I forgot." Didn't wanna be a dick, since I really liked the girl, but I have that gift. Heh

I also got used recently. A girl I liked for a long time had a boyfriend, at one time. I was under the impression she broke up with the guy. So one night, one thing led to another, and you get the picture. I took that as us having some sort of relationship in the works. I find out a couple days later that she never even broke up with the guy. So in a way, it's worse than being used. And guys are supposed to be pigs? Geez.

It's funny to hear girls ask "aren't there any nice/normal/mature/suitable guys out there?" Well...aren't there any nice/normal/mature/suitable girls out there, as well? It's a two-way street, people.

Nice guys don't finish last...we aren't even allowed to run the race...=/